VIRGINITY QUOTES

quotations about virginity

Virginity is conceptual, it is a social construction. When we have sex for the first time we do not actually lose anything. It does not change our identity, it is not life-altering and it does not affect our worth. It is simply a new experience.

SKY JORDAN, "It's time to rethink the social construction of 'virginity'", The State Press, February 6, 2017

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The desert of virginity
Aches in the hotness of her mouth.

ARTHUR SYMONS, "Bianca"

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Like a virgin, hey
Touched for the very first time
Like a virgin
With your heartbeat
Next to mine

MADONNA, "Like a Virgin"

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Lo, when man's force doth ope
The virgin doors, there is no cure nor hope
For what is lost.

AESCHYLUS, The Libation Bearers

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My brothers were never warned about the dangers of exposing too much skin. My brothers were never taught their worth lay in their virginity. Men who have sex aren't unsticky Band-Aids or flavourless pieces of gum -- they're players. Purity culture teaches young women that they need to control the brakes of sexual responsibility. Male agency is ignored, and men and boys are characterised as aggressive and brutish. Both genders are denied their humanity.

JEAN BALCHIN, "Enough of the shame game", Otago Daily Times, April 20, 2017

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Every Harlot was a Virgin once.

WILLIAM BLAKE, For the Sexes: The Gates of Paradise

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I wish I were a virgin again. The only fun I ever had was holding out.

CLARE BOOTHE LUCE, The Women

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Loss of virginity is rational increase; and there was never virgin got, till virginity was first lost.

WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE, All's Well That Ends Well

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It is the virgins, the daughters of our country, the rose buds, the birds of song, who make our homes so beautiful.

MRS. SIGOURNEY, attributed, Day's Collacon

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In the end this shall be for me sufficient, that a marble stone shall declare that a Queen, having reigned such a time, lived and died a virgin.

ELIZABETH I, Collected Works

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I always thought of losing my virginity as a career move.

MADONNA, attributed, Madonna Unauthorized

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Men are afraid of virgins, but they have a cure for their own fear and the virgin's virginity.

URSULA K. LE GUIN, "The Space Crone", Co-Evolution Quarterly, summer 1976

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Virginity of body only has meaning where there is virginity of heart.

R. CROUZEL, Origen: The Deans of the School of Alexandria

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Virginity is typically seen as a finite resource that each person is born with and can only spend on one person. It's like if each newborn baby is given a lucky dollar with the words "My Virginity" written on it in permanent marker. That lucky dollar can only be given to one other person, and then it's taken out of circulation and incinerated. No refunds, no returns, no take-backsies. And this lucky dollar seems to be more important for baby girls to hold onto than baby boys. For some reason, her dollar is worth more.

ALLISON DANISH, "Virginity is a social construct", The Rocky Mountain Collegian, March 8, 2017

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The word "virginity" is just so loaded with so much meaning and you're the same person after you've had sex, you haven't lost anything or given anything away and it's a healthy, normal stage, so I want it to be celebrated but I don't want anyone to stress about it. We're a virgin every time we have sex with a new partner because we've never had sex with them and we don't know what they like, they don't know what we like.

CHRIS DONAGHUE, Loveline with Amber Rose, April 27, 2017

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Dear woman who just started having sex: Congratulations! You have begun your journey of discovering a new layer of your existence -- an integral part of your identity, and a new way of communicating and connecting with others. Losing the cloak of virginity is only the first step, and perhaps the easiest and the simplest, even though it may not seem like it.... Don't feel guilty for being sexual. Years of systematic oppression of female sexuality has ingrained guilt and shame in us when it comes to our carnal desires, and we still feel it at some level. Your sexuality doesn't make you immoral or dirty or whatever else you may associate with it. It makes you a Goddess.

PRACHI GANGWANI, "A Letter To The Woman Who Just Started Having Sex", iDiva, April 27, 2017

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When I was younger, I thought the key ingredient to losing my virginity was true love. It HAD to be with someone who TRULY LOVED ME, would NEVER, EVER LEAVE ME and would, like, I don't know, look into my eyes and know my inner soul, and we'd touch the face of God together or something. Guess who I consciously decided to lose it to because I thought he "loved me"? Ding, ding, ding! My idiot high school boyfriend who ended up cheating on me anyway. Very not romantic. Very stupid. Very wish it went a different way.

JAMIE LEELO, "Why You Should Lose Your Virginity To Someone You Don't Love", Elite Daily, February 16, 2017

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For in pure maidens, knowing not the marriage-bed, the glance of the eyes sinks from shame.

AESCHYLUS, fragment, Toxotides

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Nature abhors a virgin -- a frozen asset.

CLARE BOOTHE LUCE, The Women

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Maybe the act of love came too late. As a career move, I should have lost my burdensome virginity at thirteen or fourteen, when there would have been no question of lasting attachment and no desire for one. As it was, I shook when I removed my clothes and I cried after it was done, not out of pain or disappointment but out of an up-rush of muddling emotion which twenty-four hours later I was ready to call love.

HILARY MANTEL, An Experiment in Love

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