quotations about grief
Ruin is strong and swift--
She outstrips them all by far, stealing a march,
leaping over the whole wide earth to bring mankind to grief.
HOMER
The Iliad
Deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.
ELIZABETH GILBERT
Eat
Happiness is beneficial for the body but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.
MARCEL PROUST
In Search of Lost Time
Grief is itself a med'cine.
WILLIAM COWPER
Charity
Faded smiles oft linger in the face,
While grief's first flakes fall silent on the heart!
ALFRED AUSTIN
"Unseasonable Snows", Soliloquies in Song
It does not require a flood of grief to drown a child's heart.
AUSTIN O'MALLEY
Keystones of Thought
Shake hands with Pain, give greeting unto Grief,
Those angels in disguise, and thy glad soul
From height to height, from star to shining star,
Shall climb and claim blest immortality.
ELLA WHEELER WILCOX
"Immortality"
In times of grief and sorrow I will hold you and rock you and take your grief and make it my own. When you cry I cry and when you hurt I hurt. And together we will try to hold back the floods to tears and despair and make it through the potholed street of life.
NICHOLAS SPARKS
The Notebook
There is an art to grieving. To grieve well the loss of anyone or anything--a parent, a love, a child, an era, a home, a job--is a creative act. It takes attention and patience and courage. But many of us do not know how to grieve. We were never taught, and we don't see examples of full-bodied grieving around us. Our culture favors the fast-food model of mourning--get over it quick and get back to work; affix the bandage of "closure" and move on.
ELIZABETH LESSER
Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow
The person who grieves, suffers his passion to grow upon him; he indulges it, he loves it; but this never happens in the case of actual pain, which no man ever willingly endured for any considerable time.
EDMUND BURKE
A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of Our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful
How long shall I harbor sorrow in my soul, grief in my heart day after day? Look, answer me, O Lord, my God!
DAVID
Psalms 13:3-4
Concealed griefs are the most consuming, as secret maladies are the most fatal.
ELIZA COOK
Diamond Dust
What most people don't realize is that after the funeral, the hard work of grieving is just beginning. Between three and nine months after the death, the full impact of the loss hits. You may find that a whole year goes by in which you use all your energy just to keep up the pretense of functioning. Gradually, you come to the realization that things will never go back to the way they were before your loved one died, but you will survive.
LORENE HANLEY DUQUIN
Grieving with the Help of Your Catholic Faith
There is no grief like the grief that does not speak.
ELIZA COOK
Diamond Dust
No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.
C. S. LEWIS
A Grief Observed
Grief fades like a wrinkle on the wave.
PAUL FORT
"The Reeds Around the Pond"
Immoderate grief is selfish, harmful, brings no advantage to either the mourner or the mourned, and dishonors the dead.
PLUTARCH
"Consolatio Ad Uxorem"
The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves.
SOPHOCLES
Oedipus Rex
To weep is to make less the depth of grief.
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
King Henry VI, Part III
I'd sooner have one real grief on my mind than twenty false. It's better to know one's robbed than to think one's going to be murdered.
GEORGE ELIOT
Felix Holt